Break Ups

Break ups hurt so badly.
When you think you've met your soulmate and it ends, that is agony. Maybe soulmates don't exist, but I like to think they do.
Everything happens for a reason, so break ups must do and no matter how agonising they are at first, HANG IN THERE, and things will improve, because they can't be worse than suffering the throes of heartbreak!
Being the dumped one sucks. You feel ther's more to say but the other person has already ended it. You lose control. You are left miserable in your own stagnant and self pitying waters.
But the dumpee also suffers. They feel guilty, possibly trapped, maybe regretful. They had their reasons but perhaps they were unsure what do do. Or how to do it. The bottom line is: break ups hurt everyone. But they are a part of life - life is full of cracks and breaks, your heart will mend eventually.